Fickle Friends ;

"Frenemies" ; can be bad for your health, but understanding these taxing relationships can make them less painful.


“The trouble is not in dying for a friend, but in finding a friend worth dying for.” — Mark Twain

What is the purpose having a friend or friends who is or are half enemy to you. That would not be right. Put aside the thoughts of being irritated at times or the feeling of being tick off because that will not count as a friend who annoy you turn to be your Frenemies. Just because you felt that way doesnt make your friend not your friend. Just put yourself in that position of being annoying and irritates your friend endlessly that should not make you his/her Frenemies. That is just plain childish.

Further, friends are friends, till death do us apart. Yes, to that extend it should be. Not just for lovers. Trust me, Frenemies is an absolute global issue. Why? It is because having this label makes you a faker for the fact that you are not being truthful to your friend to even label him/her that. 

For whatever reason may be, labeling your friend as your oh-so-called Frenemies, is an absolute taboo in a friendship. 

Friends are your brother and sisters, God had forgotten to make them your siblings.

If you have in mind, your friend is half friend half enemy, then they are not your friends to begin with. You see you are a decision maker on who should stay and who should not. No, not being picky, just for the fact that you would not want a toxic friend to be in your life, hence you choose. 


"YOU DON'T GET TO CHOOSE IF YOU GET HURT IN THIS WORLD, BUT YOU DO HAVE SOME SAY IN WHO HURTS YOU."-John Green

There is nothing more erotic than good conversation. I keep in touch with my girlfriends, all the time. Busy or not, nap time or in lecture or even in the middle of doing some task, we'll pause just so we could say Hi! to each other. Friendship is like cheese, its even better when its stored longer. I am certainly not going to get myself confuse of the people who are always around with the people who always been there. I know that doubt is not  a pleasant condition but certainty is definitely absurd. Definitely. So I have to balance when I feel anything, just anything. I am no cheap thief, I want the world, or nothing at all.